This page shares testimonials and feedback from participants

What People have said....

 

What people say about the Personal Discovery Programmes - the questions we asked and the answers we got:

1.       How would you describe the Personal Discovery (PD) programme/s to people?

2.       How have the programme/s made a difference/helped you in your life?

1.   How would you describe the Personal Discovery (PD) programme/s to people?

It is a programme that makes you take a look at yourself and understand what makes you tick, once this is understood you can then apply this to any situation to make sure life is for living and not for hiding in a box.  It made me realise who I am and why I am happy to love me for me.      

Debbie Day


The PD programme is something that you should explore when your heart tells you it's time for change.  When you know no other reason for attending this course other than you keep looking at it, you don't understand what it is, but something tells you this is for you. JUST DO IT!    Roy Martin is one of life's angels, I truly believe that.  Open your heart and your mind to the possibilities of life and begin a new journey with the support of Roy's PD courses.  I did and look where it led me!               

Rachel Cope


The PD's are nicely progressed and take you step by step in finding the real you, leaving your angst on the way and helping you think in a more positive light.  The people I have met on the programmes have mostly wanted the same enlightenment and it is great to meet people of like minds - it shows you are not alone in this world.

 Couldn't recommend it too highly.                       Janet Holden


The Personal Discovery weekends were some of the most revealing times in my life. It's about learning 'how' and 'what' makes me act the way i do. It's about being given the tools to really make my life better emotionally. It's about learning to accept myself as i am. I learnt so much about myself and how i interact with the world. If you're searching for something that's missing you may just find it here, i did. I happily shifted years worth of rubbish and negative emotions, in one weekend and then went back for more! It's the best weekend of your life! I have and will continue to recommend Roy's Personal Discovery courses to everyone.

Carol Lyon


Stretching emotionally and mentally (but only as far as you are willing to be stretched, you are always in control); GREAT FUN; A life changing experience (if you go into it with an open mind and just see what happens). I would say don’t judge it by the first one - that is not as good as any subsequent ones purely because of the apprehension everyone arrives with. Once you know you can trust Roy to build a supportive and non-judgemental environment to cocoon you for the weekend they just get better and better!                       

Carol Bowler


Have you ever wondered what it means to be truly human, to explore yourself in a safe environment, to connect with the truth within you and the truth within others, to share joys and sorrows and to have loads of fun at the same time?


This is the experience that Roy’s PD programs offer. All you have to do is make a promise to yourself to be as open and uncritical as possible, both with yourself and others. Roy works in an inspirational and loving way to make the most of whatever situation comes up. He has a wealth of exercises and techniques at his disposal and adapts each program to meet the needs of the group.

Gary Cousins


Like most people, I had got to a stage in my life when I had "issues" and any form I counselling I had, I found irritating because I knew what the problems were, what I wanted was a way to move forward.  Roy gave me some of the most amazing practical tools for dealing with my problems, from imaging a particular manager carrying a pink elephant to providing comfort to my inner child.  But beyond the very real and practical tools, which anyone can have fun with any day of the week, I gained a spiritual understanding.  I found my angel and it was amazing.

 Nicola Rayson


If you feel your life is not as you want it then PD is certainly worth a try.  Roy will help you to look at your role in your life and the effect you are having on yourself and your own happiness.  You will be challenged and you may feel uncomfortable at times but it is truly worth it, the revelations and insights you will have will be worth it.  The more truthful and honest about your own feelings you are willing to be, the more you will get from PD.  You could just sit back and watch but nothing will change for you.  The changes come from doing and feeling those emotions.  The support and energy that comes from the group is amazing. 

 

Alison Morrison


If you never spend time on yourself, you will never understand yourself and will never learn what it is you want and how to get it. This Programme enables you to self-indulge, with nothing else to do but to look into yourself and find out what you want emotionally. It unlocks the blockages and enables you to move on.

Annette Cummings


The PD programmes are immensely valuable, stimulating, provocative, challenging, beneficial, engaging and scary! You need to go in with an open mind, go with the flow and allow yourself to go wherever the journey takes you. You will discover amazing energy, wonderful people and will learn how to truly open up and communicate with other like minded people. PDing is absolutely fabulous and I would not have missed my experiences for the world!                  

Sharron Martin


A series of linked workshops that help you to understand yourself better, recognise what you want in your life and relationships and become aware of the barriers currently stopping you living a more fulfilled life. This is done by participating in variety of powerful practical exercises from self-reflection to role-plays, visualisations and even dancing so come with an open mind and be prepared for anything. You will be working in a group of people who are all at different stages in their life journey which allows you to be supported by them and learn from their experiences as well. The learning process is often fun, sometimes uncomfortable but always profound if you are at a stage of your life where you really want to understand yourself and make positive change.

Helen Watts


Unlike many personal development programs with their 'whipped up' enthusiasm and enforced structure, Roy's programmes are altogether softer and more insightful - without the gloss and the hype, but life changing and affirming.  You really do get the sense that anything might happen, as people face their fears and unlock some of the things that have been blocking them and holding them back.  Roy works through a series of exercises, meditations, and conversations that follows the mood and spirit of the group, sometimes as individuals, sometimes as small groups, but always with an eye on how people are responding, and sensitive to where people are coming from.

                                    Tim Hodgson


That they help you to learn about yourself and others. It is such a dramatic experience of personal discovery that it truly is life changing. It hasn't been easy and there were times when I was scared to go through the process but it was all worth it in the end. It gave me what I consider to be basic life skills - there isn't one person who couldn't benefit from this wonderful experience.  Its a wonderful lesson in humanity and personal discovery. 

Everyone should do it!                                        Vicky Norris

 

How has the programme/s made a difference/helped you in your life?

 The real gift I got from the programs was the group experiences of sharing deep sorrows and joys and learning that it’s alright to express these things as we all feel them. This enabled me to be less harsh with myself, to accept and work to change aspects of my personality, as I have now made a real and lasting connection with the real me that lies beyond my personality.  I always look back on these programs as special, magical times where I could truly be myself and shine. I have learnt to be able to tap into this state of being whenever I need to although nothing is as pure and intense as the experience of sharing this with others during these programs.                                                                            Gary Cousins

Since meeting you (Roy) my life has taken on new meaning and purpose. I moved to the USA, met the other most important man in my life, my wonderful husband, and have an AMAZING, fulfilled life. I finally quit smoking because I ALLOWED myself to be ok without that crutch, I stopped drowning myself in alcohol, because I ALLOWED myself to think and take control.  I now go to the gym 4-5 times a week!! I just got through a surgery that I recovered from in HOURS because I believed I could.  I now snow ski, water ski, hike, bike, camp, do yoga, scuba, run (the list is endless).  I volunteer.  I get involved.  I ENJOY MY LIFE.  In fact I LOVE MY LIFE.  When I met you, I did not believe I had a life never mind one that was worth continuing.                                 
                                                                                           Rachel Cope


For me participating in Roy's Personal Development Programmes has been a very special experience that has changed my life for the better in many ways. It gave me the time to assess important aspects of my life and relationships, and understand what aspects of my life had been put on the back burner. Roy challenged me in a supportive way to look critically at my current behaviours, to see how these had arisen from my life to date and to decide which ones I wanted to change. He also introduced me to tools to use to help me move in the direction I wanted. The programme has allowed me to release some of the not such good things that had happened in my life, and have the courage to now do what I really want. It has enabled me to build a much better relationship with my mother and I am about to start a whole new chapter in my life away from the large corporate world that had become my comfort zone. Along the way I have experienced loads of fun, laughs, love, hugs and the continuing support of a whole new group of very special friends.

                                                                                               Helen Watts

I have learned more about myself than I ever believed possible.  I've learnt to value myself and my place in the world.  It has given me tremendous confidence in me as a valuable person. It has enabled me to move on from dangerous limiting self beliefs, people and situations. I have learnt what it is that I want from life and what I don't want. I have also learned that I'm not the only one who goes through problems in life - it was wonderful to have the opportunity to share life's journey and appreciate it's ups and downs with others. It has given me the courage to believe in myself and not be dependent on others especially those who are no good for me!  It has also helped me take more responsibility for my life - its not a dress rehearsal and its there for us to make the most of it!

Vicky Norris

Absolutely - I now understand and admit where my weaknesses / issues are, I have more confidence to talk to people about them, rather than bottle things up, and people not understand why I react the way I do - it has made me realise if I do not love me, then how can I expect to be happy or want other people to love me.

Debbie Day

The programmes have made a profound difference and helped me resolve many things/situations in my life and I feel so changed. It has been a very positive experience for me and meeting people on these programmes has been an a super extra bonus and has given me people to talk to.

Janet Holden

Over three weekends with Roy, I've learnt so much about myself.  The weekend has certainly helped shape my career, and helped me make some tough decisions about leaving my current job (20 years with the same company) to strike out on my own and follow my deepest calling.  I've learnt so much about energy and been opened up to a whole spiritual world that I didn't understand before.  Now, I feel far more in control of my own destiny, far better able to understand and love people - and I have made some brilliant friends into the bargain. 

Tim Hodgson

I grew up and am not afraid to be who I truly am. I gained confidence enough to go back to my boss and tell her where to stick her job that I had hated for years, with love of course! I learnt to apply for jobs that I really wanted to do instead of what I thought I would be offered. I trust that my own instincts are correct and never doubt that I am loved and cherished by at least 2 other people. I learnt that I am a worthwhile human being, who makes mistakes but is allowed to. I learnt that I can rise to my true potential if I allow myself. That I do not need to suffer any negative feelings about me because I’m actually a really great person. I discovered that my talents are endless. I was able to tell my parents how I truly love them and forgive them for past mistakes. I also forgave myself for past mistakes, this made a huge difference to the way I saw myself and others. The Personal Discovery courses, all 3 of them, have touched every area of my life. It has been a gateway to personal freedom. 

 Carol Lyon

I went on the first course five years ago and have done one or more a year since. Over that time Roy’s courses have led me in gentle steps to review where I am, and who I am, at any point in my life (it is such luxury to get a weekend to focus on yourself, when else can you do that?). It also taught me to recognise and grasp opportunities and not to fret about the past or the future. I took a small bold step which led to a change of career four years ago and have gradually gained confidence such that, last year, I volunteered for redundancy and became self employed without worrying about it, just knowing it was right for me and the work turned up when I needed it to. Roy did this primarily by encouraging me to trust and to experiment following my intuition, sometimes doing things without any apparent logic but because they felt right and it worked. I know I will make loads more changes yet because it is a constant growth process and that makes it exciting.

Carol Bowler

The programme has made an enormous difference to my life.  I don't think I was a hopeless case before PD1 but I certainly looked at life from a different angel.  I feel a lot more spiritual now, more in touch with the energy of the universe rather than cut off from it.  I did see a counsellor for nearly 2 years (which was very important and helped me deal with some big stuff I had never discussed with anyone before), which I think was as a result of knowing that being a victim was not the answer.  I am not sure I would have done that otherwise.  Maybe I would, who knows.  I have made some great friends through PD course, people who understand a similar way of thinking and looking at the world.  I can tell them to 'should-off' and they get it!  Very importantly, and maybe even most important, has been the effect on my parenting of my children.  I am determined that they are going to be in touch with their emotions and able to express them and we talk openly about all sorts of things.

                                                                                              Alison M.

I wouldn't be with my partner today if you hadn't shown me through your session on "remember the last time you felt really loved" This session made me realise that I deserved to have unconditional love and made me remember my Mothers early love which translated to how Mike felt about me and made me feel. Love isn't about highs and lows, it's ever present

Annette Cummings

The programs made a difference because I feel they helped me become a better person from doing them. They have helped me to stop and think about certain people and situations that extra time before deciding my action. It has also made me become more balanced person. The things I learnt I apply to my every day working and private life. It is like a tree that grows and through the season’s changes but come spring sprouts a new lease of life. This is like my life now there are going to be good and bad points but good always wins in the end until the end of our time.

Martyn Harvey

The PD weekends/Spain programmes have helped me to realise that I am not the only person with "issues" that need addressing in life and that we all have insecurities. They have allowed me to realise that despite my "issues" I am an okay person who has a lot of good qualities (although I often deny this). They have allowed me to move on in life and to accept that this is necessary and we do not need to cling onto the past but to live in the now! I have learnt that my attitude counts for an awful lot in life and am learning to be more positive. I am making positive changes in all areas of my life and I'm proud of me! My confidence is growing gradually too!

Sharron Martin

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